@darrenmorin Damn right. I've been doubted countless times, I know how it feels. Always been told I was stupid, or just dumb in some way, either consiously or subconsiously.
I refused to believe that. And I want to make others refuse to believe that about themselves too. We may be a harsh species to each other, but maybe we're just misunderstood.
Wholesome spheres often consist of people who know what pain is, but also some who have empathy, so maybe they have not experienced the pain, but they still feel for us. That's true human decency: We trust each other, and we trust each other not to harm others, not to do the same mistake our abusers have done to us, or preventing ourselves to become abusers to ourselves, or others.
I'm just rambling, but I'm saying... that even if some people may not know the pain, the ones that do, they know it, they want to help exactly the ones who feel the same, and that melts my heart, seeing people help each other, with a good heart, and no bad inten